Boys Fall Apart Too

Upon searching articles about ended relationships, I came across with something from by Ms. Jen Kim. This somehow gives the side of men when dealing with a break up.

“Boy meets girl. Boy tells girl he loves her. There is no one else but her. But then, at some point, boy says, “It’s not you, it’s me. Let’s be friends.” The boy changes his Facebook status to “single” and fills his Instagram feed with photos of himself partying with never-before-seen women. The girl, meanwhile, falls apart and tells her friends how unfair it is that he’s already over the relationship, while she’s busy analyzing every minuscule thing that she might have done wrong, for months, maybe even years.

But the boy falls apart, too—he just doesn’t show or tell anyone. It sucks for both boy and girl, just in different ways. And it probably sucks even more for him, but he’ll never tell you, because he’s not allowed to.”


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